Stan Nze clapped back at a social media critic who slammed his wife, Blessing Obasi, for not adopting his surname on her online profiles, defending her autonomy and choice.
Blessing Obasi shared a promotional video for colleague Wumi Toriola’s movie premiere, “Queen Lateefah,” on Instagram.
However, a critic, Oriretan Honour, took the opportunity to rebuke her for not adopting her husband’s surname, Stan Nze, on her social media profiles, implying that this omission indicates a lack of marital respect and love.
He urged Blessing Obasi to take the necessary step and adopt her husband’s surname, cautioning her against embracing a modern, free-spirited attitude that contradicts traditional marital values.
“Blessing, it’s unwise not having “Nze”, your husband’s surname, on all your social media handles, forgetting this speaks volumes about marital respect. It is more unwise to still have “Blessing Jessica Obasi” on your Instagram instead of “Blessing Nze”. I’d not find it hard to change our husband’s surname on your media accounts if you truly love and respect him. Do the needful now. Avoid being a 21st-century kind of wife in character and mentality. This is why it’s not good for 2 celebrities to marry. There is always power, submission tussle. Think smart to protect your home. Be wise. Don’t be unwise”.
Stan Nze fired back at the critic, advising him to focus on his own life and refrain from meddling in others’ affairs, essentially telling him to “mind his own business.”
“It’s unwise to be in people’s businesses. Please mind your business”.
Blessing expressed her gratitude and admiration for her husband, affectionately writing, “My King, you’re the best” (roughly translated from the Igbo phrase “Dim Oma”).
Stan Nze tied the knot with his colleague, Blessing Obasi, in 2021, and their union has been blessed with a beautiful family, including a son born in 2023.
In September 2022, Blessing and Stan Nze sparked concerns about marital issues on their first wedding anniversary.
Despite receiving surprise gifts from fans, a video showed Stan visibly irritated, prompting worries among their followers. In a subsequent interview, Stan confirmed the tension, revealing that the couple had argued and were in different emotional states, making the celebration joyless and uncompromising.
Meanwhile, The couple celebrated their second anniversary with a joyful revelation – they were expecting their first child – sharing a heartfelt video where Blessing Obasi lovingly cradled her baby bump, marking a blissful new chapter in their relationship.
Marking their 3rd wedding anniversary, Stan Nze gushed about his wife, calling her the most incredible woman alive, and reflected on three years of witnessing God’s unwavering faithfulness and goodness in their journey together.
