Nigerian singer Simi recently spoke out about the importance of men being open and honest about their emotions, and expressed her appreciation for vulnerability in individuals.
She encouraged men to break down traditional gender barriers and freely express their feelings, highlighting the strength and courage it takes to be vulnerable.
By sharing her thoughts, Simi aims to promote a culture where emotional expression is valued and encouraged, regardless of gender.
On a recent episode of the 90’s Baby Show, Simi opened up about her admiration for men who embrace their vulnerability, saying she finds it “beautiful” when they choose to express their emotions rather than suppressing them.
By sharing her thoughts, Simi highlighted the importance of emotional expression and the strength it takes for men to break free from traditional gender norms and be open about their feelings.
“I find it beautiful when men cry because I am surrounded by so many men that feel like they have to be macho all the time or they have to be strong,”
Simi emphasized that societal expectations often force men to conform to traditional masculine norms, pressuring them to always appear strong and stoic.
She encouraged a shift in this mindset, asserting that it’s perfectly acceptable for men to be supportive and nurturing towards their loved ones while also expressing their emotions and vulnerability.
By doing so, men can break free from harmful gender stereotypes and foster healthier relationships and emotional well-being.
“When you see men and women go through the same kind of pain or hurt, the man says, ‘I have to be strong for my wife or for my women or kids.’ I think that’s okay, but I don’t think strength means not being vulnerable or not crying.”
Simi warned that bottling up emotions can lead to inner turmoil, which can ultimately manifest in unforeseen and potentially harmful ways, such as mental health issues, relationship problems, or even physical health concerns.
By encouraging men to express their emotions, she hopes to prevent these potential consequences and promote a healthier and more open approach to emotional expression.
“I like it when men cry because it means that you feel safe with who you’re with, you can be vulnerable, and you can let go. That’s how I see it because as an African woman, I have seen African men be like, ‘I’m the protector, I’m the provider, I’m the warrior,’ but I feel like if it’s not coming out in your tears, it’s going somewhere. Even if it’s like a little ball inside your heart, one day you’re just going to explode,” she expressed.
