Breakups can be challenging, and many people frequently block or unfollow each other on social media platforms such as Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat.
However, some individuals opt to keep an eye on their exes online, which can be unsettling if you desire a clean break.
Here are some signs that your ex may still be stalking you:
1. Using Anonymous Accounts
If your account is public, be cautious of unfamiliar, anonymous accounts following you, particularly if they have blocked or unfollowed you. These accounts typically lack profile pictures and frequently view your stories and posts. If your account is private, remain alert for unexpected follow requests from unknown users.
2. Viewing Your Stories
If your ex consistently appears among the first to view your stories on Facebook, Snapchat, or Instagram (whether through their primary account or a burner account), they may be closely monitoring your online presence.
3. Liking and Commenting on Your Posts
If your ex frequently engages with your content, even in the absence of any direct communication, it may be a sign of stalking. An influx of “likes” or comments from them, particularly on older posts, indicates they might be closely monitoring your profile, possibly as a means to capture your attention.
4. Monitoring Connections
If your ex begins to follow the people you interact with or those you follow, they could be attempting to gather information about your current life and your social circle.
5. Unexpected Friend Requests
If your account is private and you receive friend requests from unfamiliar individuals or strangers, it might be your ex trying to reconnect using a different profile.
Be careful of applications that claim to identify who is viewing your profile. These apps often require your login information, risking your account’s security and offering little valuable information.