Iyabo Ojo has written a touching tribute to social media activist, Very Dark Man.
Iyabo Ojo shared a compassionate post about Very Dark Man Single, attributing his toxic and narcissistic behavior to a troubled upbringing lacking love, care, and stability, which has left him with unresolved anger and pain.
Iyabo Ojo called out Very Dark Man Single, saying he misdirects his anger at successful women and men instead of addressing the real causes of his frustration.
Iyabo Ojo directly addressed Very Dark Man Single’s mother, expressing concern over her lack of initiative and dependence on her ex-husband. Iyabo questioned the mother’s past actions, including whether she worked before her ex-husband left and if her character or actions contributed to the breakdown of the relationship.
Iyabo Ojo revealed that her son needs healing, but she can’t afford the N100 million required, which is why she’s seeking answers and speaking out.
“Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Hence, your toxic narcīssistic behavior, Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.
Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to lash out at successful womën and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to acknowledge the root cause.
Listening to your story, you had to fend for yourself at a very young age, which resorted to stealing potatoes and chickens to survive. You almost got lynched when you tried to steal a bicycle, so you said, w, ell. “That was traumatizing as a child, but why would your mother allow that to happen?
Since you’ve mentioned our names once again, I need to ask your mother why. Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on ur ex-husband is concerning.
Were you not working at all b4 he ran away? Was your character flawed? Did you cheat, Did he want DNA? Why didn’t you make a continuous attempt to find out whose farm ur son stole potatoes or chickens from to feed, or were you also enjoying the benefits? Why would you have kids you couldn’t raise
Now, I wouldn’t have asked you because everyone has their stories, but your son needs to find healing!
Vincent, your mother, who failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets; you knew your mother was the president, general among failed mothers. Still, you projected it on us; why? O wrong now 😕
Anyway, I get that your life experiences have shaped you into the BEAST you are today – manipulative, rude, Connie, deceitful, and toxic narcīssistic. Constantly tarnishing reputations to gain relevance. Your parents are to blame for it o, not Paulo and Mama Festus and Priscilla.
Your obsession with Iyabo Ojo is telling me that my name lives rent-free in your head o, I don’t have 100m to remove it from your head, so please, If it helps you breathe well at night, continue.
VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace”.
Iyabo Ojo and VDM have been in a public feud for over a year, sparked by Iyabo’s involvement in the late singer Mohbad’s case. The dispute escalated with both parties exchanging insults, including personal attacks on each other’s families.
Very Dark Man and Iyabo Ojo’s feud reignited in June after he claimed she wasn’t invited to Davido’s main wedding, implying she only got an after-party invite. Iyabo responded with proof of her invitation, leading to a heated exchange on social media.