Uriel Oputa shares wisdom on relationships, cautioning women against investing excessive energy into stagnant or unfruitful partnerships.
Reality TV star Uriel Oputa offered insightful perspectives on men’s thoughts and motivations in relationships, revealing what drives them to select a partner and what they truly value in a romantic connection.
She wrote;
““”Sometimes, I really pity some women. I had to learn the hard way. Look at all the effort some girls put in just to prove they’re good girlfriends.
Here’s the truth: a man knows from day one if he sees a future with you. If he’s serious, you
don’t need to break your back washing, cooking, or running errands to prove your worth.
Go clean his entire house, even his grandparents’ house, it won’t make him stay if he doesn’t want to. As for me, don’t meet me expecting me to cook or play house. I know my
worth.
Men know I can cook, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to start doing wifey duties for free. It’s a lesson many learn too late – all the washing and bending over backward won’t
change a thing if he’s not serious. Take note, ladies!. I have four brothers, I hear inside gist”
Uriel Oputa delved deeper, sharing her understanding of the key factors that retain a man’s interest and influence his relationship decisions.
“A man will only stay if he wants to stay. No amount of nagging, pleading, or intimacy will change that.
Why? Let me explain. Men are wired differently when it comes to commitment,psychologically, they tend to be more straightforward in how they make decisions about relationships.
While women often weigh emotions, shared
experiences, and long-term dreams, men generally take a more binary approach: they’re either in or out from the start.
Men are biologically predisposed to focus on solutions and outcomes, and this affects how they see relationships too.
Their commitment often comes down to what they’ve decided early on-no amount of bending over backward will change their mind if they’ve already made up their mind.
So, ladies, remember: you can’t ‘convince’ someone to love you or stay if it isn’t what they already feel or want.”